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The world is an objective multifaceted and comprehensive unity, and many things do not happen by the will of any one person.

In this complex and changing world, in order to be happy, we must follow the objective law of happiness and adapt to the objective existence of the world.

how to change yourself for the better

“survival of the fittest” is a natural dialectic and a social dialectic.  From the law of happiness itself, the joy of helplessness is also one of the ways to obtain happiness. Sometimes it’s really frustrating when external things don’t line up with your internal feelings. But when you can’t change this reality even on your own, you can only go along with it, accept the facts, face reality, find ways to adjust your mind, get the maximum amount of your own happiness in helpless situations, try to keep a good mood, and find more reasons to be happy for yourself.

how to change yourself mentally

One success expert studied the relationship between a PhD and a junior high school graduate’s business situation and education.

The junior high school graduate himself could not explain why he was able to get rich so quickly. The expert then went to his business for more than six months and finally found the reason for his success, which was quite simple. Although that CEO couldn’t say it, he had always done it that way: do not change others, only change their own.

When he was a child, he always failed to grab his ideal seat, but he did not blame others, only himself. So he came up with a way to take a good seat two hours earlier every time, while reading a book and waiting for the movie to start. Someone later asked him why he had to go so early. He said, “Just to let people know that certain seat is  mine, and I’m always two hours early.”

As time went on, no one really took that seat because everyone else knew that spot was his. To the end, even if he went very late, that seat was left vacant for him.

Another time he participated in a project bidding, and after bidding was told to wait a week for the results. Unlike others, he didn’t just wait, but went to inquire once a day for six days with no results. On the seventh day, before the official announcement, he was the first to get the results, and he knew two hours before anyone else. Because his company was  inferior, he tried every possible way to get it. As a result, it was hard for him to get the results. That’s how he tried to get ahead of the game. He always takes the initiative, rather than waiting passively. In fact, sometimes the opportunity is a little ahead of others.

When things can’t be changed at the moment, we take the initiative to change our mood. In fact, in the lives of all people, if you have a happy mood and discover it with care, such happy reasons are by no means the exclusive property of the author, but the welfare and right of every person.

If You Can’t Change It Change the Way You Think about It

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